Coming out of the pandemic, I had just turned 30 and was reeling from a painful rejection by a guy I’d had my heart set on. I’d worked up the courage to ask him out—something I rarely did—and he gently turned me down, saying he just couldn’t see it as a good thing. It wasn’t cruel, but it crushed me.
That moment felt like confirmation of my worst fear: that I wasn’t good enough for a relationship and no one would ever want to date me. At 30, I’d only been on five first dates—and all of them were ones I either initiated or got set up for, I had never been asked out on a date. I thought I was doing everything right, but it just wasn’t working and felt impossible.
Then a friend invited me to a singles event featuring a dating coach. I was skeptical. After all, hadn’t I already heard everything I needed to know about dating from church leaders and my parents? But I went and that night changed everything.
Enter Kristin Sokol who is warm, insightful, and refreshingly real. She spoke about dating with strategy, confidence, and know-how about dating in today’s world. She didn’t see me as too picky, too reserved, or too intimidating. She saw potential.
Working with Kristin flipped the script I had of myself. I stopped seeing myself as a victim of modern dating and started showing up with confidence, clarity, and purpose. I wasn’t “too intimidating” or “too smart” but real a catch learning how to be seen as a potential girlfriend.
Kristin didn’t indulge my excuses but gave me truth, truth that no one else would give me about how dating is a real skill that can be learned. She coached me to become the hero of my own dating story, challenging every limiting belief I had about myself and relationships.
So, what happened after I completed her program?
I started dating. I began dating guys I met on apps and in real life like the cute guys in grocery store lines and Sunday School classes. I went from anxious and invisible to confident, flirty, and magnetic. I began to attract attention, not just romantically, but socially and professionally. People invited me to fun events because they saw I was fun. I made new friends and then became friends with their friends. And I walked into the interview for my dream job and nailed it with charm and ease. I honestly know that none of these amazing experiences would’ve happened if I had never worked with Kristin.
Most importantly, I began to believe, deep down, that I am going to find my person. No more fear, just pure confidence and excitement.
If you're someone who thinks love is for everyone else… If you've been told you’re “too this” or “not enough that”, or if you’ve settled into a lonely routine of work, home, and TV and quietly wondered if this is all life has for you, please hear me: it’s not.
Kristin is the dating coach we all need. She’ll teach you the skills you were never taught. Because while we’re all born knowing how to love, no one is born knowing how to date, especially how to date in today’s modern world.
I highly and emphatically recommend working with Kristin because she sees the real and totally amazing you, and she helps the rest of the world see it too. So don’t wait. Your person is out there looking for you. Get the knowledge, the skills, and the confidence to help them recognize you when they cross your path.
Sincerely and with all gratitude,

Jennifer R, 33

I can’t believe it happened for me!

Most singles wonder: Is there a true love match for me out there or will I ever meet the person of my dreams?
Even though I had a lot of faith, I finally admitted to myself that maybe Prince Charming wasn’t going to walk into my life like I had always dreamed about, and that I should take some action! It was truly a divine intervention and a sign from above when a friend told me about Kristin. Her coaching had helped her meet the man of her dreams. They were not only married in a short amount of time but had a baby too! My hairs were standing on end and my interest was piqued because she was “older” like me! (When you’re getting close to forty or over forty and still want to meet the one AND have children, you can sometimes go into panic mode.) Hearing about Kristin was great, but I still figured, well, I don’t know about hiring someone to help me find someone online. A few months went by and I was prompted to make the call. So I did it. I called Kristin.
My success came through her steadfast coaching and unending faith that she will get you married, even when you don’t believe it yet. It really began to rub off on me and changed me for the better.
The focus on goals and how to meet them gave me weekly direction. And with her strength, support and talent, she truly helped me find my Ever After. I am forever grateful for this woman’s ability to direct thoughtful questions that truly made me think and helped me understand myself more deeply.
I was able to ask her questions to things that I had a hard time figuring out on my own. I began to learn who I really wanted for a spouse and what I deserved.
It was a powerful, spiritual, emotional, and so very rewarding experience. After only 3 months, I began talking to ‘The One’. Met him online and yes, he was out of state so, had I not done this online thing, we wouldn’t have met!
Four months later we are now engaged to be married. All I can say is Wow! Dreams do come true! Thank you Kristin for who you are, your amazing intellect, sweet spirit, and unending devotion to your work. You are such a beautiful being, inside and out! This is truly your calling and Trent and I will be forever grateful for you!

Angela

Staying Focused On The End Game

Before I started my relationship coach journey with Kristin I had a negative mindset on dating. I’d been single for a year, recovering from a difficult break up. When I started looking online I got more discouraged than ever! It seemed like nothing but flakes and fakes, how was I ever going to find a decent man?

Right away from my first conversation with Kristin I felt bonded to her. Her bubbly personality shines through immediately, but more importantly the information she shared was so relevant and helpful I was filled with tears of joy. She shared so many valuable insights that I hadn’t thought of. I’m not young, I’ve been around the block a few times and I thought I knew a lot about relationships. Boy was I wrong. The perspective she provides made it possible for me to navigate the world of online dating and stay focused on the end game— which is getting what I want. She helped me recognize what I want, who I am, what I’m looking for, and gave me a realistic expectation of how to get there. I’m not there yet but more importantly I am confident, able to communicate more effectively my needs and desires, and feel like I now will be able to attract the man for me because of my self esteem and the growth I’ve achieved while working with her. I have recommended her to many people, and sadly they won’t take control of their choices and do what’s needed. If you’re reading this give her a call. Listen to her truth, her insight, and you’ll agree right away it’s worth more than she charges for the relationship you’ll build with her— and the person of your dreams someday soon!

Mendi, 46

The change I needed

I’ve been working with Kristin for just under a year now, but I knew right away that our relationship would be a good one. My life started to change very quickly once I started working with her and I’m happy to say, I’m she has helped me completely change my life! Kristin has a way of if wrapping you in a warm hug with her words, you feel immediately at ease and as though you can trust her with anything. She has a way listening in a non-judgmental way but asks all the right questions to keep you digging deeper and looking for the answers that lead to immense growth.

Lana