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Private Individualized Dating Strategy Sessions

The fastest path to meaningful progress is private individual coaching. Kristin’s personalized and hands-on sessions are designed for clients who want focused attention and accelerated growth.
You'll identify what's actually working, uncover what's getting in the way, and create practical strategies tailored for you. Sessions focus on the things that move the needle like clarity, confidence, specific magnetic messaging strategy, dating strategy, compatibility assessments, and new knowledge about how healthy romantic relationships develop and evolve.
Private coaching allows Kristin to know you exceptionally well. As she learns what you're looking for and what makes you unique, you'll naturally be top of mind if she encounters someone in her network who may be a strong fit for you.
Sessions are conducted via video from the comfort of your home, office (or car). You'll leave each session with fresh insights, and actionable next steps.
Ready to learn more about this service? Fill out this quick form and check the Private Coaching box. 

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The Love Blueprint: A small-group date coaching cohort

Alongside a supportive virtual small group, you'll gain clarity, confidence, and practical tools that make dating feel more hopeful, intentional, and effective. The Love Blueprint is a more affordable alternative to private coaching while still providing expert guidance and personalized support. From the comfort of your own space, you'll learn the mindset shifts, strategies, and relationship skills that help people create more opportunities for connection and find lasting love.
The program combines expert coaching with real-world application. You'll have direct access to Kristin and the encouragement of a like-minded community as you learn to recognize opportunities, build meaningful connections, and create the kind of relationship you're hoping to find. Members of The Love Blueprint support each other daily through their live group chat. The community aspect of having peers to journey with you often make this the best option, even you can afford private coaching.
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Dating Analysis + Strategy Intensive + Match Pool Interview

This experience includes a 90-minute one-on-one Dating Analysis and Match Pool Interview with Kristin, followed by a 30-minute follow-up session approximately two weeks later.

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It's a great fit for someone who values privacy and personalized attention but isn't quite ready to invest in a full series of private coaching sessions.
Together, you'll explore your dating history, lifestyle, values, goals, and the type of relationship you're hoping to create. Kristin will help you identify opportunities you may be overlooking and provide practical, actionable guidance to help you move forward with greater clarity and confidence.
One added benefit is that you'll become part of Kristin's Priority Match Pool. As she gets to know you, you'll be top of mind for introductions, event invitations, and other opportunities that may create meaningful results. While introductions are never guaranteed, Kristin will keep you on her radar and will reach out if she encounters someone she believes could be a strong mutual fit.
Whether a match emerges or not, you'll leave with fresh insights, a clearer strategy, and practical next steps to improve your chances of finding the relationship you're looking for.
Ready to learn more about this service? Fill out this quick form and check the Dating Analysis and Strategy Intensive + Matchpool interview box.

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  • Most people assume finding love is primarily about meeting the right people. While introductions to great people certainly help, lasting success comes when clients start to think differently, communicate in dating-specific ways, and approach romantic opportunities with greater skill and intention.

    Kristin helps clients create more opportunities when none seem to exist. She also helps them recognize and maximize the opportunities that already exist so they can take advantage.

    Kristin helps clients gain specific micro-clarity about what they want from each situation and how to navigate the circumstances they regularly encounter for better results. Together, they build confidence, social competence, and strategic dating skills that yield chemistry and connection.

    One of Kristin's specialties is helping clients develop communication habits that are warm, playful, and engaging. Most people default to professional communication styles, which often come across as dull or overly serious in a dating context. Kristin helps clients replace those habits with communication practices that spark curiosity, create fizzy connections, and make people excited to hear from them again.

  • Kristin's work with clients begins with foundational mindset shifts that help them become more successful daters and connectors. She also teaches practical skills in dating app strategy, meeting people in real life, magnetic texting during the early phases of dating, compatibility and chemistry assessment, attachment science, and creating first impressions that make people want more.

    One of Kristin's core coaching objectives is helping clients move away from all-or-nothing thinking and toward genuine curiosity. Instead of rushing to determine whether someone is "the one" or "not a fit," her clients learn to wonder what interesting things might be behind door #2 and gather better information before drawing their conclusions.

    This helps clients stay open-minded without overthinking or making too much out of any single interaction. They become more willing to engage with opportunities, gather information, and allow attraction and connection the time they need to develop.

    Kristin also teaches the order of operations that helps relationships progress naturally and successfully. When clients understand what to focus on at each stage of dating, they are less likely to sabotage promising connections, move too quickly, or walk away before they have enough information to make a wise decision.

    The result is simple: Kristin's clients create more opportunities, recognize more opportunities, and capitalize on more opportunities than they did before they started working with her.

  • Many of them do.
    Over the past 20 years, Kristin has had a hand in more than 150 marriages and counting. While every client's journey is different (and marriage is not always the goal), the reason for those positive outcomes is remarkably consistent.
    Her clients learn to see dating through a new lens. They recognize opportunities they would have previously overlooked, handle situations more skillfully, communicate more effectively, and make better decisions throughout the dating process. Over time, those small shifts compound into life-changing results.
    Rather than relying on luck, they become intentional about creating connection, evaluating compatibility, and building relationships with people who are a genuine fit. That combination of clarity, skill, and strategy often leads to the lasting relationships they were hoping to find all along.

  • People often ask if Kristin is a matchmaker. The answer is yes...but perhaps not in the way most people expect. Kristin thinks of matchmaking introductions as the sprinkles on top, not the ice cream itself.

    Her primary focus is helping clients become exceptionally good at dating, connecting, and recognizing opportunities. As she works with clients, she gets to know them extremely well. She also maintains a large network of vetted singles, former clients, and professional contacts.

  • Possibly!

    When Kristin knows two people who seem like a strong mutual fit, she loves to facilitate an introduction.

    Sometimes those introductions happen naturally and frequently, especially for clients who are open minded and curious about people. Sometimes introductions don't happen at all. It depends entirely on who is in her network at a given time and whether she believes there is genuine potential for both people involved.

    Her coaching clients benefit from her network, her observations, and her willingness to make thoughtful introductions when appropriate. However, introductions are never guaranteed.

    What Kristin does not do is spend her time actively recruiting dating prospects for clients, conducting national searches, or building databases of thousands of singles. Instead, she focuses on helping clients become more effective daters while remaining open to opportunities that may arise through her network.

  • For clients seeking a more traditional matchmaking experience that includes active recruiting and customized searches, Kristin maintains close relationships with highly trusted matchmaking professionals who specialize in that work.

    There are many matchmaking services out there, and they are NOT created equally. Recruitment-based matchmaking, done thoughtfully and ethically, is incredibly time-intensive and requires significant resources. As a result, those services typically require a substantial financial investment.

    If that level of matchmaking is what you need and can afford, Kristin is delighted to do the legwork to connect you with the right matchmaker who is qualified to find someone in your niche. She wants you to find the professional Matchmaker who is best equipped to help you meet the kinds of people you're hoping to find.

    No matter how you get there, her goal is always the same: helping you find your person in the way that makes the most sense for your situation.

  • The first step is to tell Kristin a little more about you. Start by filling out her Start Here form and check the Not Sure What I Need Yet box.

    Kristin personally reviews the forms and will be in touch with a next step for you. 
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  • A great, but passive first step is to set up a profile in Kristin’s database of singles. She sometimes pulls in matches for her clients through this database. It’s free, so why not?

    https://forms.withhoneybee.com/kristin-sokol?firm_id=deN5RrGEQqOheqw47PoURQ