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Blending timeless wisdom with dating research, strategy and new social connections.







Blending timeless wisdom with dating research, strategy and new social connections.

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Hi, I'm Kristin Sokol.

I’m an Instructional Matchmaker based in Utah, working with clients across the country.

So, what is an Instructional Matchmaker? Traditional matchmakers focus heavily on recruiting. I focus heavily on preparing you with proven researched-based strategies and techniques. You'll reframe your perspective, get honest feedback and cheerful accountability.

Yes, introductions and fix-ups may happen. I'm a Matchmaker after all! I have a vast network of high-caliber single friends who are perfect for client set ups. And, guess what...my newly married former clients are all about fixing up their single friends with my clients. It's a win/win!

The truth is my matches are no comparison for when my clients better understand the order-of-operations in dating, and activate their own referral networks. FYI: You and the people who know you best are better matchmakers than any database. My role is to help you date with clarity, competence, and confidence so you see more opportunities and enjoy the process of dating someone wonderful.

Over the past 20 years, I’ve had a hand in more than 150 marriages. I'm proud of that, but my greatest pride isn’t the weddings. It’s seeing my people move from feeling hopeless and stuck to dating, having fun, and feeling empowered to create new social and romantic connections.

My background blends both science and strategy: a Bachelor’s degree from Weber State, a graduate certificate in Executive and Professional Coaching from the University of Texas at Dallas, a Science-Based Dating Coaching certification from The Global Love Institute, and a Love MBA from Harvard-educated matchmaker Rachel Greenwald.

Through one-on-one sessions, I help clients with strategies that match their personality, lifestyle, and relationship goals. I’m not a mental health professional. I’m a future-focused, results-driven matchmaker who loves helping people close the lonely gap in their lives.

My journey began in 2004 when I met my own husband online. A timid dater, meeting my spouse this way was the surprise of my life! It launched my passion for leaving no singles behind. Dating and social constructs have shifted over the last 20 years, and many of us need updated insights to navigate modern dating. Two decades in, I’m more excited than ever to help my clients find the most effective tools to find their person.

When I’m not working with clients, I’m enjoying my own marriage with my husband of more than 20 years (yes, the one I met online). Now we’re empty nesters, loving this phase of life. Our two daughters are out in the world making their way, and we’re still here supporting them and our family dog. We love skiing Utah’s Wasatch Mountains, exploring national parks, and staying active in our community and church. 

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Professional Endorsements and Accolades

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Rachel Greenwald

Harvard MBA and CEO, Greenwald Executive Matchmaking

I have had the pleasure of knowing Kristin Sokol since the early days of her career in the love industry. She has successfully completed two of my intensive matchmaker and dating coach training programs, including my LOVE MBA program. Kristin's warmth, compassion, and personal touch are evident in her interactions with clients and colleagues alike.
Her keen intuition, coupled with exceptional written and interpersonal skills, allows her to connect effortlessly with others. Kristin's genuine approach makes her feel like a friend to all. She is a dedicated professional, always eager to learn and receptive to feedback from mentors and peers. Her generosity in sharing her unique insights and wisdom enhances the collaborative spirit within the love expert community.
I wholeheartedly endorse Kristin's expertise as a dating strategy professional. Clients who have the opportunity to work with her are indeed fortunate.

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Dr. Terri Orbuch, PhD

Author, and distinguished Professor at Oakland University

Kristin Sokol completed my science-based date coaching certification course years ago, and it was immediately clear that she possessed exceptional wisdom and insight from her extensive experience. Since then, I’ve had the pleasure of featuring Kristin as a guest on my podcast, where she shared her unique perspective and expertise. I’ve also enjoyed interacting with her within the Global Love Institute and have seen firsthand her unwavering commitment to ethics, professional development, and coaching excellence.

Kristin is not only highly skilled but also a generous contributor to the field—bringing warmth, knowledge, and integrity to every interaction. I wholeheartedly endorse her work in date coaching and strategy. Anyone who has the opportunity to work with Kristin will benefit immensely from her guidance.

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Katheryn Sargent

School of Family Life, Brigham Young University

I have welcomed Kristin Sokol into my classroom every semester for many years. As a professor in the School of Family Life, I try to provide my students with real-world examples of professionals who excel in this industry, and Kristin embodies that standard.
My students are consistently inspired by the business Kristin has built. She is incredibly generous in sharing her expertise, offering valuable insights into the development of a coaching and dating strategy curriculum, ethical coaching practices, and the business intelligence required to succeed in this field. Her willingness to openly discuss her knowledge and experience makes her an invaluable resource. (Plus, Kristin is a really fun presenter!)

Beyond her expertise, Kristin is great at connecting with my students. She has mentored them, answered their questions with honesty and depth, and demonstrated what professionalism looks like in action. Her impact is lasting. Anyone who hires Kristin Sokol is making a wise investment in their future.

What My Wonderful Clients Say

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Kristin is a phenomenal coach with the right attitude and skills to help anyone attain their goals. The journey with her was emotionally and spiritually rewarding as I felt myself cut through some barriers that blocked my road to success in the past. I'm so very grateful to have met Kristin and to have had a chance to work with such an amazing spirit. If not, I may not have found my Ever After!

Angela, 39

Acupuncturist, CA

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Kristin listened to my fears then boosted my confidence and helped me see possibilities I felt like I could do. After working with Kristin, I am clear about what I want. The things I discovered about dating, men and myself through the coaching process are working!


Mary, 33

Executive Assistant, UT


Coming out of the pandemic, I had just turned 30 and was reeling from a painful rejection by a guy I’d had my heart set on. I’d worked up the courage to ask him out—something I rarely did—and he gently turned me down, saying he just couldn’t see it as a good thing. It wasn’t cruel, but it crushed me.
That moment felt like confirmation of my worst fear: that I wasn’t good enough for a relationship and no one would ever want to date me. At 30, I’d only been on five first dates—and all of them were ones I either initiated or got set up for, I had never been asked out on a date. I thought I was doing everything right, but it just wasn’t working and felt impossible.
Then a friend invited me to a singles event featuring a dating coach. I was skeptical. After all, hadn’t I already heard everything I needed to know about dating from church leaders and my parents? But I went and that night changed everything.
Enter Kristin Sokol who is warm, insightful, and refreshingly real. She spoke about dating with strategy, confidence, and know-how about dating in today’s world. She didn’t see me as too picky, too reserved, or too intimidating. She saw potential.
Working with Kristin flipped the script I had of myself. I stopped seeing myself as a victim of modern dating and started showing up with confidence, clarity, and purpose. I wasn’t “too intimidating” or “too smart” but real a catch learning how to be seen as a potential girlfriend.
Kristin didn’t indulge my excuses but gave me truth, truth that no one else would give me about how dating is a real skill that can be learned. She coached me to become the hero of my own dating story, challenging every limiting belief I had about myself and relationships.
So, what happened after I completed her program?
I started dating. I began dating guys I met on apps and in real life like the cute guys in grocery store lines and Sunday School classes. I went from anxious and invisible to confident, flirty, and magnetic. I began to attract attention, not just romantically, but socially and professionally. People invited me to fun events because they saw I was fun. I made new friends and then became friends with their friends. And I walked into the interview for my dream job and nailed it with charm and ease. I honestly know that none of these amazing experiences would’ve happened if I had never worked with Kristin.
Most importantly, I began to believe, deep down, that I am going to find my person. No more fear, just pure confidence and excitement.
If you're someone who thinks love is for everyone else… If you've been told you’re “too this” or “not enough that”, or if you’ve settled into a lonely routine of work, home, and TV and quietly wondered if this is all life has for you, please hear me: it’s not.
Kristin is the dating coach we all need. She’ll teach you the skills you were never taught. Because while we’re all born knowing how to love, no one is born knowing how to date, especially how to date in today’s modern world.
I highly and emphatically recommend working with Kristin because she sees the real and totally amazing you, and she helps the rest of the world see it too. So don’t wait. Your person is out there looking for you. Get the knowledge, the skills, and the confidence to help them recognize you when they cross your path.
Sincerely and with all gratitude,

Jennifer R, 33

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